www cedar finance com Mum of two, Sophie Fletcher, is a clinical hypnotherapist and an experienced doula. Last week, she brought out her first book Mindful Hypnobirthing: Hypnosis and mindfulness techniques for a calm and confident birth. Today, she’s here on the blog to tell us how her first birth experience inspired her to turn things around when she was due to give birth again, only a little over a year later.
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Mindful Hypnobirthing: Hypnosis and mindfulness techniques for a calm and confident birth was published by Vermilion and is available in all good bookstores or on Amazon (affiliate link).